Oh it’s so much fun… All the blinking, twinkling lights, the fresh smell of pine 24 hours a day in your own living room, all the presents…
It’s like being in a dream and waking up in a nightmare!!
January hits, and it’s Bills! Bills! Bills! By now, the tree has been taken down and disposed of, and for the majority of the people, the lights get placed sloppily in a box with ornaments and left over wrapping paper, and you’re thinking, “Why?! Why’d I do it?”
Let’s think about it. The holiday season is special, maybe even magical, but is it really necessary to max out your cards to buy everyone and their mama a present? Probably not.
This year is a wash. The presents have been bought, and in a month or so, you’ll get your chance to really assess the damage. But what’s done is done. Let’s now focus on the future...
One possibility is to go ahead and hedge your losses for next year. Before you start going crazy, buying presents next year, why don’t you talk to your friends and family, and agree that instead of buying each other something, you’ll agree to cook for each other, maybe give them a massage, the recipe to their favorite dish. If you guys agree not to buy presents, it’s just like receiving cash in hand, because you guys will be saving so much money!
Also, get a control of your finances. If you’re having a hard time making the minimum payments on your credit cards because of all the gifts you bought at Christmas, maybe you could think about contacting your creditors and asking for a hardship program; or better yet, call a well-respected Credit Counseling agency. Your accounts would be closed, and your payments lowered, so you wouldn’t be able to put your Christmas presents on credit, even if you wanted to! Think about this: instead of paying for the holidays the whole next year after, pre-pay your gifts! If you get on a Debt Management Plan and save $100/month, put that into a savings account, and Viola! you have $1200 for Holiday season ’09…
Just remember, planning for the future is a lot cheaper than paying for the past…